Some women who get hurt of love write to me, claiming that they promised to sacrifice everything for each other in the past and now what they get is betrayal. What's more, they do not want to let the men who cheat them get away without punishment.
I think they are unrealistic. There are something we should know about men and women's love. They have different attitude towards love and thus they treat love and the one they love differently. When a woman says to a man, "I will sacrifice everything for you", she does mean it. While a man says so, that only means he is willing to spend part of his free time to company her when they are in love. In addition, everything is not the same in men and women's mind. To women, everything means all her life, whereas to men, it only means his spare time apart from his eight-hour work. Women will spend seventy percent of her life time to love, and men will take only thirty percent of his time on love. But what gets into his mind is how to get the woman as soon as possible. Women adore romance, willing to fall in love with men all the time. And they will talk to their friends as well as others about her love. But men simply tell his best friend about how he gets a woman and shares his ways with them. They take women as their clothes and accessories. Women love for the sake of love, but men regard it as a means. I have heard lots of men saying he will sacrifice everything for her and I have no feeling about that. However, when I hear a woman tells a man that she will not regret, I am touched.
In all, it is better not to take men's words as serious. You can trust a man's love but not his promise.
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